• Who do your parties cater for?

Our parties are designed for couples and single woman who are eager to explore their sexuality, meet like-minded individuals, and create lasting memories.

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Our Exclusive parties are just that, Exclusive, a highly vetted list, swinging is the main priority here with a touch of kink in the kink zones.

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Our Kink events focus on kinky play, on these nights kink will spill over into the rest of the house, wax play, kinky scenes, rope play and sensual delights.

• How many people will there be?

We have between 50 - 70 guests at each party, a mix of people from Kiwiswingers, FetLife, Feeld or found us through word of mouth or the website

• I am brand new, will I be welcomed?

Yes! We welcome new players, our guests are a very friendly bunch, they will welcome you with open arms, there's no expectations of play, come soak up the atmosphere and see how it all works.

• ​​How do get the password to RSVP?

Please send us a message, give us a quick breakdown on your experience level and include some face photos for vetting

• I'm a single man, how do I get in? 

At our exclusive parties we cater for single woman and couples, but there is demand for single men, spots are limited to a maximum of 7 and usually filled with our well known good single men, occasionally we will take on new single men but you must be attractive and have some group play experience, we don't allow you in to just come watch or as a space to gain that experience, you also cannot buy your way in at any price.

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At our Kink events you must be known in the community and be well vouched.

• What is the vetting process?

Our screening process commences with your first message, assessing your responses, communication style, and treatment towards us.

As part of the process, we'll ask for face photos and details about your experience level.

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Our Exclusive parties are highly vetted, and we are interested in individuals and couples who resonate with the preferences of our current members. If we determine that your attributes do not align with our exclusive community, we may respectfully decline your application.

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• Are you LGBTQIA2+ friendly?

While the majority of our female guests identify as bisexual or bi-curious, and most men identify as straight, we welcome individuals from all sexual orientations and gender identities. Our vetting process applies equally to everyone, and we treat all our guests with the same level of respect and inclusivity.

• Do I have to play?

Absolutely not, if you are a new couple or single woman, you are welcome to come and have a look, but you still must meet all our vetting requirements.

• Can I bring a friend?

Absolutely! As long as your friend has successfully completed the vetting process and paid the appropriate entry fee, they are more than welcome to join us. We encourage you to share the experience with your friends within our inclusive community.

• Is it a safe sex event?

YES! We provide condoms and lubricant, and it is expected that these must be worn to ensure the safety and well-being of all attendees. Utilising protection is your own personal responsibly and, in this space, it is viewed as a nonnegotiable for all casual sexual encounters.

• Is photography allowed?

While we encourage you to utilize the space and props for capturing photos of yourself or your partner, we kindly ask that you respect the privacy of others. Please refrain from including any other guests in your photos unless you have obtained their consent.

• What if I have a problem with another guest?

Your safety and comfort are our top priority. If you encounter any issues or concerns with another guest, please inform one of the two hosts immediately. So matters can be dealt with swiftly and appropriately.

We take consent violations seriously and rely on your feedback to address any issues effectively. Our parties are attended by experienced individuals who are also available to offer assistance if needed. Rest assured, there is always someone nearby to support you.

• What if I see someone i know from my vanilla life?

While we can’t guarantee that you won’t encounter someone you know, rest assured that everyone attending our events is there for the same reason. They are aware of the nature of the event and have chosen to participate knowingly.

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